OKAY I LIED, I DON’T WANT TO KILL MYSELF EVER I JUST PUT THAT SO YOU GUYS CAN READ MY QUESTION…THE REAL QUESTION IS: I WANT TO PLAY A SPORT OR GO TO A GYM FOR MY HEALTH, BUT I’M HAVING FAMILY ISSUES WITH MY MOM. HELP?
I’m 14 and never played a sport. I did do track in middle school, but I didn’t like it because running isn’t my sport really. I don’t know what my sport is. I’m a girly girl, and I love my figure. I’m really skinny, but I can feel some weight coming on. I’m not really a competitive person, and I’m not wanting to play a sport professionally. I just want to play a sport you know just so I can be fit and for my health and exercise. I did basketball, soccer, track, cheer-leading. None of them worked out. Now I just want to stay fit and work on my body. When I did try out for those sports, my mom was so lazy. She didn’t want to do anything. I have really bad family problems as in my mom not letting me go nowhere, my mom still married to a man that isn’t what she wanted, my mom not listening to me, my mom not talking to me about important stuff. So much. I told her I wanted to work out and stuff, but all she says is, talk to your dad. She’s lazy to take me anywhere. I don’t know what to do, I’m not going to be able to do anything without her being there for me. To be honest, I feel so uncomfortable when my mom did cheer for me when I was in track, it’s like wow she wasn’t paying attention to me before, why start now. I’m not blaming her, but I just don’t know what sport to do or should I just work out at a gym or something? I don’t know.
Any sports that are girly? Any tips on what to do with my mom? Any tips at all?

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6 Responses to “I Want To Kill Myself. Help?”

  • An Angel's Voice says:

    Any sports that are girly? : Honestly, there isn’t any sexist sports. Girls can do anything a guy can do, and we can do it in high heels! So go out for any sport, and every sport! Try and look for something that might interest you. If you can’t find anything, try just joining a gym.
    Any tips on what to do with your mom?: I say just simply tell her how you feel. How it hurts that shes not there for you and how much you wish she was. Crying tends to happen when sharing emotions, but just let it be known how you feel, then she’ll realize how much shes hurt you. She’ll try to make it up to you. And if she doesn’t, go ahead and talk to your dad and ask him to talk to her.
    Any tips at all? : Stay strong and stay true to who you are :)

  • Falcon_0 says:

    Try fencing. It’s not necessarily girly, but as you’re older, you’ll find that guys like a girl who can handle a sword.

  • Dove says:

    Yes, that got me to read your question! You might be interested in reading some of my answers to other people. I had a hard home life, too. But I found happiness!!

  • crazzefe says:

    dancing tennis & basketball? a sport can’t really be masculine if it has a team of girls………

  • Haniff says:

    dont kill yourself…

  • Dr. Amazing says:

    talk to your mom about it and be like i need you to be there for me im putting myself out there trying to do my body good and i feel like you dont want to help me this makes me uncomfortable or something like that… and maybe try volleyball i know it just passed but it looks simple… or maybe basketball girls basketball isnt really that competitive just pass it to the black girls its what they have done all their life (im not a racist these are facts)

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