I have never understood this, this goes as far as both sexes. But, if I care about my health why should I date someone that does not care about their health? I get called shallow for this but it is true, if I take care of myself why should I feel sorry for someone that stuff’s their face…





















i feel exactly the same way. i was watching tyra yesterday and it was about fat models like 600lb women modeling, which was disgusting. i just thing its so unhealthy to weigh that much and i don’t know how anyone could think its attractive. i am 5′7 and i weigh 110lbs i eat healthy and i workout everyday. i hate when people tell me that i don’t eat because they are fat and im healthy. working out for 30 mins a few times a week dosent work when your fat. ugh i hate people who feel bad for themselves because they cant lose weight when they don’t try
Because people make comments such as the ones you’ve just made. That’s why.
When you date someone, there needs to be an attraction on multiple levels. If you have the inability to become attracted to someone with a weight issue, you shouldn’t force yourself or have anyone tell you your feelings are wrong.
However, past being attracted to someone. IF you automatically assume someone that is overweight is lazy or is “stuffing their face” you are DEAD WRONG, ignorant and shallow at that. Many people have weight issues because of depression, hormone imbalances, addiction issues, genetics, thyroid problems, diabetes…the list goes on. Assuming anything bad about anyone you don’t know is ignorant and just awful karma for you. Who are you to pass judgment on someone else? If someone is fat from over-eating, how is their over-indulgence in food any worse than the wrong things you do in your life?
Take care of the ASSumptions you make about others. Be careful of the judgments you pass, even to yourself in your heard. What goes around does come around. What would you do if tomorrow your thyroid quit on you because of faulty genetics and you had to live as one of the “fatties?” Makes you not want to be so cruel doesn’t it?
If you don’t like fat girls then you don’t like fat girls it up to you reallii.
But sometimes you might have to think there might not stuff they faces and have a eating problem.
My friend is biggish and shes has a under active thyroid and shes fiines its hard to lose weight but shes always trying to lose weight so yeah shes does care about her weigh and her heatlh so you know.
You dont know why their are fat or if there care about there health or not
so please dont judge.
First of all, fat people should not be losing weight and exercising in order not to be judged. All you are doing is forcing people to feel worse about themselves which either leads to extreme yo yo dieting or just binge eating.
Whether they do something about their weight or not is not your issue, it is theirs. Also some of these people may have just started exercising and eating more healthily and then someone like you comes along and judges them probably doesn’t help keep them very motivated to keep up the good work.
But anyway, if you judge others then prepare to be judged yourself.
some fat people cant lose weight, granted there are many that do overeat and cant control themselves when it comes to food, but its exactly the same when it comes to skinny people who obsess about keeping slim and dont eat anything at all, which is just as unhealthy… yet seems to be more socially acceptable.
also some overweight people have some health problems that make it very difficult to lose weight, diabetics for example..
probably because its an addiction for deep steated insecurity, so it seems messed up to make fun of some one like that.
as far as dating goes, you should be able to date whoever you want. Sexual attraction does play apart. Your not shallow if your just not attracted to someone.
I feel the same way, im attracted to healthy people who who decide to take action about problems rather then complain about them.
you know what, I am an overweight person myself and yet I totally agree with you. Being over weight shows a lack of self control and NO ONE can disagree with that! You should never look down on over weight people but you certainly have the right to conclude that they don’t take care of themselves properly.
they cant lose it b/c they feel bad about theirself…
and when your like sad and
stuff, you tend to eat more…
and more.